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memories of 2006

Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 12:14 pm
by Fez
looking back on this year i have to say its been a bad one from the start and nothing that could happen in the days that remain can over turn that fact. even the early hours of it marked a new personal low point that it took a long time to crawl up from and is not an experience i ever want to be put through again. but for the first time i was made to share wider family strife as the weeks rolled on, which it was impossible not to bogged down in.

my gran hasn't been the same since two drugged up intruders walked into her house about twelve months ago, her confidence took a knock and in th fall out her health has greatly suffered. she has all but stopped eating and has been bed ridden for the last six months being cared for by a combination of visiting nurses and family members. she did seem more talkative and lucid when i saw her last week but a full recovery is out of the question. i can't begin to guess what the near future holds for her.

this was follwed by my grandad from the other side of the family going into hospital for an operation on his ankle. the bug he caught when he was in there left him mentally confused and physically weakened for a number of months, but thankfully he is now back to his old self again and he remains the most active eighty-three year old i know.

shortly after this my dad injured his leg during a team building exercise at work and my mother and me spent almost eight hours at bolton royal following him as he was ferried from doctor to nurse and back again. the operation was done the day after and he was out within two weeks, though he still walks with a slight limp all these months after and the six inch scar will be a permanent reminder.

breaking cars have been a constant feature for me and my brothers recently. while i have developed a strange desire to hit stationary objects at low speed, richard wrote off his car last week after swerving to avoid a subura on the wrong side of the road - it didn't stop and richard now has most of the windscreen glass embedded in his arm. this week james was involved in another accident that wasn't his fault but seems likely to keep his car off the road for some considerable time - this too may even be a write off but if i come across the taxi driver responsible the bastard's face will be as well.

personally, aside from the new year meat grinder, i've been faced with redundancy only to be given a last minute reprieve that has married me to a job i started to hate within the first few weeks of starting it, and the grim satisfaction to be on hand to offer whatever ineffectual help to everyone else as the health and money troubles continue to grow. it has been without doubt the worst year in living memory and i for one will be glad to see the back of it.

what will everyone else take from the last twelve months?

Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 1:08 pm
by Claire
I offer you sympathy Fez, for your troubles, but I am going to have a 'cup half full' moment.

My best moments of 2006 will be from my summer in Kenya. 11 of us went to Nyeri to a school, taking with us ?10,000, raised by our combined fundraising efforts over several months. This money is almost a million in their currency.

The school has a "Juniors" programme which is basically for ex-street children who find their way there, and are in various states of vagrancy and deprivation. some of them turn up spaced out on glue and literally lice-infested.

?70 at St Mary's school will feed, clothe, house AND educate one student for a whole year. we took ?10K so i think that puts it into perspective.

Fez, my only (and hopefully not platitudinous) advice is: take the security of still having your job and use it to start looking for a new one. New year, New job. You are a qualified and intelligent person. If you want more, go get it. Plus, I find in troubled times, especially ones that you have no control over (like health), it's often the best idea to change the things you actually DO have control over.

Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 3:23 pm
by mr_e
It's difficult to know what to write given your first post, Fez, and to have all that happen in one year is pretty harsh. You know where we are if you need us.

This thread may be somewhat premature, as there's a certain New Year's Eve party still to come, but all I've really had to shout about this year is a friend's wedding. Spain was cool as well. Plus I'm still breathing. And have some good friends. Yay!

I'm already beginning to think of New Year's resolutions to break. I should have some fun ones for 2007...

Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:11 am
by Mike
I am also sorry to hear about your year. It has been a tough time for you Fez and I only hope that it gets better for you. I would also like to second Claire's suggestion to look for new employment as I am sure enjoying a job is very important (since we spend a great portion of our lives doing it!)

My moments of 2006 are generally good. I think that I have had a good year, I have seen new places, done new thing and Qualified. I think that the highlights are:
Lizzie! 8)
Booking the Honeymoon - Cuba baby yeah!
Parties
Spain
Good friends (who I don't see enough off, the Hib and the Woodster spring to mind! Note to self: WILL TRY HARDER!)
Qualifying
Work (sad I know but I really do enjoy what I do!)

There are more but I think that that the most traumatic time of 2006 was when my Granddad died. In some ways it was a blessing to be so quick but mortality is a very difficult thing to deal with and he has, and will be, missed.

Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 4:50 pm
by Fez
whoa, hang on a minute people - i wasn't looking for sympathy, i was just retelling the facts as they stand. i'm grateful for your concern but it isn't needed. it's just been a crap year in general

Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:45 pm
by mr_e
I'm wondering when the first New Year's resolutions thread is going to be started...and I've just thought of another nice moment of 2006, but I can't really tell anyone. Teh intrigue!!1!

Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 9:21 am
by BarcelonAl
Well 2006 for me started off pretty rubbish. We lost a close family friend (next door neighbour for 20 years) to cancer and then I got made redundant. Luckily for me, that arguably turned out to be the best thing that happened this year as it cleared and funded the way for my move 'oop north'.

Memories of 2006:

- Moving to Manchester.
- Successfully performing 'Best Man' duties.
- Friends. Old and new.
- Spain.

I wonder what 2007 has in store...

Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 11:40 am
by Mike
mr_e wrote:I'm wondering when the first New Year's resolutions thread is going to be started...and I've just thought of another nice moment of 2006, but I can't really tell anyone. Teh intrigue!!1!
Spain. . . . photo. . . . gallery

More guesses people, I think when we start getting really overblown weird mr_e will tell all! :twisted:
Fez wrote:whoa, hang on a minute people - i wasn't looking for sympathy, i was just retelling the facts as they stand. i'm grateful for your concern but it isn't needed. it's just been a crap year in general
Does not stop us hoping that 2007 is a Fez year! :D

Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 4:35 pm
by Fez
it will be the year of the ferret, starting with my total domination of this forum and ending some time next december when i am crowned emporer of the universre! bahahahahaha! :D

Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 7:23 pm
by mr_e
That's reminded me, I have a bottle of cider that's best before end of October in our fridge, do you want it at all Fez? And no, it wasn't Salou, Mr Riley.

Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 9:02 am
by Mike
How about the time when you parachuted out of an airplane over cuba. Had a shoot-out with the local militia then slept with three beautiful women before having to go home to 'M' in London to report. AKA James Bond stylie. :idea:

Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 4:38 pm
by Fez
better chuck the cider, i think it's past its best...so better get rid of liz too! ha, couldn't resist! :)

Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 4:45 pm
by BarcelonAl
Miaow! I thought you were a ferret not a cat! :)

Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 5:20 pm
by Mike
Saucer of Milk for Fez. . . . :D